How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 01:14
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Lowering Blood Pressure May Cut Dementia Risk by Up to 15% - Neuroscience News
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
CNN interrupted for devastating Elon Musk news amid Donald Trump showdown - Irish Star
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Cholesterol: Daily cup of beans may lower levels, improve heart health - MedicalNewsToday
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
That's it for today.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why do people have polyamorous relationships?
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Bitcoin bears bet against BTC’s rally, but a short squeeze could follow IF… - AMBCrypto
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Rocks reveal the turning point when oxygen changed Earth forever - Earth.com
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
With Micah Parsons, the Cowboys foolishly drag their feet — again - NBC Sports
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
News & Notes: John Harbaugh on Why Jon Gruden Observed OTAs - Baltimore Ravens
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What is the dirtiest city in India?
Ask yourself:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.